How to overcome a separation to make your ex want to come back and give you another chance? You repeat to yourself every day “I want to get my ex back at all costs!” but you can’t make them come back? How to rebuild after a separation in order to regain confidence?
I want to find the woman I love
Most men who go through a breakup contact me to say they desperately want to get back the woman they love. I know this is your case, but I recommend you change your way of thinking to be able to put yourself in the right frame of mind.
It’s never easy to achieve a successful romantic rekindling, but there is also a fatal error you tend to make, that of positioning yourself as asking or putting your ex on a pedestal.
How do you expect to win back your partner if you belittle yourself? How can you re-seduce her if you lack self-confidence? You must agree that these two situations are simply impossible and it’s necessary not to get your ex back at all costs, but for the better!
In this article, I guide you so that you can make the right choices and set the right conditions to get your ex-wife back but also to rekindle your couple’s life. Please feel free to ask me any questions in the comments, I will be happy to answer you.
How to get your ex back for the better?
Before considering taking action to win your wife back, I recommend you adopt the right mindset or perfect philosophy to put yourself in the best disposition. Winning her love back requires that you be able to prove to her that you’re the man capable of making her happy.
For this, you need to go back to the beginnings, to the start of your relationship where you represented the ideal man and where you managed to make her want to invest in a long-lasting story.
Return to this situation and ask yourself these questions:
- What was your frame of mind at that moment? Did you feel like talking to him about your feelings or simply enjoying the present moment?
- How did you manage to woo her? Were you being demanding or on the contrary, sharing with a great self-confidence?
- Did you tend to show him that you were unhappy or, on the contrary, a dynamic and positive man?
Answer these questions and you will notice that getting your ex back for the best is absolutely possible.
Getting your ex back at all costs, it’s being in demand…
Contrary to good reflection and the suitable actions that stem from it, the majority of men tend to rush in headfirst and shout their feelings. I know how much you love your wife and all the pain endured with the breakup.
It remains no less valid that putting your partner on a pedestal will yield no results, as all she will do is reproach you for every mistake you’ve made. It’s a myth to think that you can erase your mistakes with promises, as new ones will come to replace everything your ex ever told you.
The romantic reconquest requires that there be an equal relationship and that you regain confidence in your ability to bring happiness to your partner.
If you decide to do everything to get back your relationship, I recommend that it be for the best then do not hesitate to give yourself an ideology, that of enjoying every moment and showing your wife that your personal life is attractive.
If you manage to correct this main mistake of constantly repeating “I want to get my wife back at all costs“, by successfully putting yourself on the same level as her and taking patience to recreate positivity, then you will be in the best position to save your relationship, rekindle the flame and become indispensable in the eyes of your ex-wife.
Are you ready to regain your worth and personal confidence? I wish you the best and am waiting for your comments to guide you as best as possible.