Do you feel like you’re not cultured enough? Not funny enough? Not interesting enough to attract a girl? You’re good-looking, but they always drop you after two weeks because they get bored with you? Something’s not right… Here’s the solution to attract a girl and amaze her in 5 steps.
1- Know their world
Girls are special, fascinating. We would like to write generalities about them, we love to talk about them with friends, but they are sometimes unique and unpredictable. What they like one day this beautiful dress, this currant cupcake or your habit of leaving your underwear around your house may very well irritate them the next day.
Some live for fashion, others beauty, others cupcakes sorry, I said I would avoid cliches… There is everything among girls, gamers, sportswomen, intellectuals, nymphos. Girls who love music, girls who sing, girls who dance. Girls who have entrepreneurial spirit, others who have a passion for writing, others still who have an incredible eye for art.
And they are sometimes multi-faceted: in the same female physical body, you will sometimes find a fan of Madonna and quantum physics, a follower of personal development and rare whiskys.
If you want to bounce back when she talks about a subject, take interest in her world.
2- Know your universe
Truth be told, we could have put it at the beginning given how important this step is. “Know thyself”, you all know this phrase. This is by far the best dating advice in the world.
Once you know yourself, you will be able to attract girls into your universe.
You will recognize your triggers and you will know the words that can make a girl smile. You will discover what type of personality women like, what subjects interest them, etc.
Knowing oneself is also essential for having good conversations with girls. After all, it’s hard to talk if you don’t know who you are or what you stand for. Your opinions and beliefs are important to make a girl feel that you are interesting and unique.
By having a clear vision of yourself, you will be able to go beyond superficial conversations and delve into more meaningful subjects such as dreams, fears, passions, and experiences. You will have the necessary confidence to say whatever goes through your mind without worrying if..
3- Cultivate your universe
A garden, secret or not, needs cultivation! You can’t rest on your laurels, you must always be on your toes. A bit like a doctor, you can make the choice to be a generalist and talk about everything, or choose specialization.
You can choose a few topics on which you will be very sharp, a few conversations in which you can shine, and a few subjects that will fascinate you.
No matter the topic, really! Whether you are the French champion in body painting or archery, the important thing is that the girl you want to seduce feels the masculine energy that drives you when you talk about your passions or your projects!
4- Be open to everything
Switch to “Yes man!” mode! Say yes to (almost) everything, discover new horizons, travel, go to birthdays or parties where you don’t know many people: in one word, force yourself to step out of your comfort zone.
Girls are attracted to guys who share anecdotes, who have lived! In your opinion, why do older men manage so well with girls? Maturity, confidence, and experience!
A man who has traveled around the world, who has had interesting experiences and who can recount his adventures is more appealing to girls than a man who hasn’t done so. Girls like men who have a good sense of humor and who can make them laugh. Laughing brings people closer together and allows two people to connect at a deeper level.
5- The coating, the gift wrap
You can have the most beautiful story, but if you don’t put in the energy, the conviction, it will be a flat electrocardiogram for your audience.
Put colors, shapes, and smells into your stories! It’s essential that girls can project themselves into the scenes you describe! This is the basis of storytelling! You need to learn how to captivate the girls who are listening to you!