Have you finally met a woman who pleases you? Following your seduction routine, she is also under your charm. Congratulations! But keep in mind that seducing a woman is one thing… and keeping her is a whole other story.
If you want to keep your relationship beautiful and succeed in your romantic relationship, it is important to lay good foundations from the very beginning for it to last.
Assert yourself immediately
The most important thing in a budding relationship is to always stay in control, no matter what happens. The first few days are a very important testing phase for women, and it’s exactly at this moment that you have to show her that you are a man worthy of the name.
Always keep in mind that women, regardless of what they may say, are looking for a partner to lean on. So take her under your wing and with your attitude, make her feel secure by your side. Comfortably nestled in the cocoon you will have created, she will have no desire to escape.
Show Initiative
If there is one complaint that women constantly make about men, it’s that they do not take enough initiative. Even if you are tempted to please her by letting her decide your schedule and meeting places, know that it’s a bad idea. A woman quickly tires of such a situation.
Impress her: be the cool guy who always has a good plan to propose, or an original idea to submit. If necessary, get help from your girl friends: they will definitely have advice and good tips to give you. Don’t forget: in any relationship, your laziness can lose you. So do not just be followers, and get her out of her usual routine! She will be VERY grateful to you.
At the beginning of a relationship, be careful not to let yourself be walked over. During the delicate phase of the early days, always make sure you are respected.
For example, do not let her “belittle” you. If she throws a jibe at you, throw a small jab back at her. You will thus set limits, which is fundamental to establish a healthy and stable relationship. On the contrary, if you allow her to disrespect you (constant lateness, rude remarks, etc.), she will end up crossing the line thinking that you are a man that she can toy with…
Don’t let the routine settle in
As your relationship builds, always keep in mind the madness of the beginnings, and its magic. To not fall into a routine, surprise her from time to time, have little attentions for her, without also coming across as a romantic lost in love. Bring her breakfast in bed, take her to dinner at the restaurant of your first date: she will want to do the same in return. It’s a guaranteed success.
Here’s how you will lay the foundations for a good couple relationship. So it’s your turn to play, and don’t forget that once in a relationship, the seduction must continue!