Do you feel like all the couples around you are falling apart? That you will never be able to attract a woman you are interested in and be happy in love? You constantly wonder how to take control of your love life.
Was it really simpler to find Love, yes, with a capital L or not to divorce in the time of our parents or grandparents? That’s the question most people ask themselves, without necessarily falling into nostalgia or the “it was better before” mindset!
The observation can nevertheless be scary. In France, it is nearly one in two marriages that ends in divorce and more than 10 million people living alone. However, it is perfectly possible to be happy in love and that’s the positive message I wish to convey in this short post.
Through this article, I wish to give you the keys that will allow you to be happy in love, while remaining true to yourself. This may seem obvious, but it’s a luxury in our society.
What if love was not so easy?
If I were to draw an experience from my activity as a Love Coach, it would be to realize that the majority of people, women as much as men, consider love as a feeling that is both simple and also instinctive.
And yet, loving a person is learned daily, just like cycling or reading. You have gone through many failures in your life in general to develop your skills in all possible areas. So, no mystery, it is the same with love. Because even if it’s the most extraordinary of feelings, it’s also the most complex. You will therefore have to develop multiple communication skills, non-verbal language, empathy in order to be happy in love.
I assure you immediately: once awareness is achieved, everything becomes clearer and happiness is within reach. It is simply a matter of understanding the learning to be put in place to “love better” but also to learn to receive affection.
Happiness is what we determine
Indeed, happiness in love is what you determine and decide to obtain. You are at the forefront of your emotional life and you need to learn how to define desires that correspond to you.
Gentlemen, do you want to seduce a woman who attracts you to the point of losing your mind? Do you want her to be level-headed but also with a perfect body? Well, you can achieve your goals.
There is no magic recipe, but a plan of action to be determined based on your current love life and evolving it according to your desires and needs.
However, there are exercises that can allow you to start off on the right foot in seduction or in the understanding of love.
You must learn to live in the present moment
The third point of the recipe for being happy in love is elementary and obvious. You must learn to live in the present moment to no longer feel fear. You must fight against a sentimental past that was not positive, in order to convince yourself that the future holds wonderful surprises for you!
If you impose barriers on yourself, you will not be able to go far as your actions will be disorganized and carried out without will.
Being happy in love depends on your desires and then on the actions you will take to achieve it. There is no reason why you should not have the happiness that your parents or grandparents knew.
However, do not forget that this long process of sentimental well-being is a learning that is essential to achieve a more general balance. In order to help you enjoy each moment and free your mind, adopt a positive view of your daily life and erase the negative thoughts that are all too prevalent around us.
And to go further…
These tips are general and do not take into account your relationship or personal history.
For comprehensive and personalized advice, Alexandre offers his method to help you make your relationship last or win back your ex-wife.