If in the collective imagination, the profiles of narcissistic perverts are rather men, this “quality” is not only reserved for us and can also concern women. And believe me, a manipulative narcissistic woman is the kind you absolutely need to avoid.
She can make you lose confidence in yourself and ultimately destroy you. So be careful! But how do you know if you’re dealing with a simple woman of character or an authentic manipulator?
4 signs to recognize a manipulative narcissistic woman
At first, the subject may seem trivial to you. However, when analyzing carefully, you will realize its relevance. Perhaps it even directly concerns you. Indeed gentlemen, you have certainly heard of narcissistic pervert men. But have you ever wondered about women who also have this type of unhealthy behaviors?
Contrary to what you might imagine, the narcissistic perverse woman exists, and can destroy your couple life if you do not remain vigilant. Many men come out bruised from a relationship, precisely for having faced a manipulative woman. These men completely lose confidence in themselves, no longer control their lives, as this relationship with this kind of woman has been so damaging to them.
So, how to recognize such a woman? What signs characterize her? Here are 4 ways to know if the one you covet is a narcissistic manipulative woman… or not!
1. The narcissistic perverse woman accuses you of everything
For the manipulative woman, you are the source of all her troubles. She will assume that you are always absent when she needs you. For her, you are never there when needed, let alone when her interests are at stake.
For things that seem insignificant, or that do not require sharp reactions, you will observe excessive reactions from her, even scandalous, just so that you feel bad. Faced with her health, work or other problems, the manipulator will make stories, and won’t miss any opportunity to create disputes between you.
This narcissistic and vicious side is especially noticeable when she makes sure you feel negative emotions. By doing so, her ultimate goal is to control you, even if her behavior affects your personal well-being. When observing her, you will be tempted to say that her desire and her will to destroy take precedence over her humanity.
This is the kind of partner who seizes every opportunity and turns it to their advantage to make you feel guilty. So be careful of this kind of behavior in your partner. This is the only way to avoid a harmful relationship in every respect for you.
2. The manipulative woman never stops belittling you
For the narcissistic perverse woman, all occasions are good, as long as she can denigrate you and make sure you feel bad. In her understanding, everything you do must be questioned. You are never good enough for her, your actions even less so. She puts herself in the shoes of a perfect character, who relentlessly corrects your mistakes and flaws, to the point of making you feel useless.
Better, she enjoys belittling you, criticizing you and making disparaging remarks, in order that you feel bad, small, and insignificant.
In her clearly displayed attacks, she will target you personally, without any detours. You will notice that she takes pleasure in sowing discord, in attacking you as an individual. The most vicious among them will even compare you to other men, in order for your ego and self-esteem to be affected. This is the kind of behavior that can easily make you lose confidence in yourself.
If you are living such a situation, after reading this article, you must no longer succumb to this self-loathing. On the contrary, it’s time to take control of yourself again. It could perhaps be a way for you to realize that in reality, you are worth more than what she tries to make you believe, and that it’s rather she who doesn’t deserve you.
3. She is a discourteous partner in public
The stability of your relationship largely depends on how you perceive yourself. It’s important that you have, beyond self-confidence, a certainty of your abilities to make a woman happy, and a clear understanding that you have the life you deserve. Possessing this discernment, a narcissistic woman will not easily be able to destabilize you.
Indeed, her favorite playground is when you are in public, with friends and family. This is the place and time she will choose to belittle you and affect you psychologically, sometimes seeking support from the people you are with at that moment.
She thus tries to psychologically destroy you, by using one of the key principles of socio-psychology, namely social proof, which is a tendency to superimpose one’s behavior, opinion, on that of another person.
That’s why it is necessary that you have confidence in yourself and that you value yourself. This self confidence, as they say over there, will even allow you to nip such behaviors in the bud, to discourage her from indulging in such in the future.
4. The narcissistic perverse woman manages to make you feel guilty
While you act in good faith and believe you are doing well, the manipulative woman will do everything to make you doubt yourself, to make you feel guilty. If she succeeds, you will wrongly think that you are the problem. With her, you can expect no compliments, let alone any affection. Even better, you should not complain, let alone expect an apology, no matter how offensive her behavior was. A woman who behaves like this is certainly not/no longer in love.
And under these circumstances, the breakup is the only solution, first for your honor and happiness, and then if you do not want to be psychologically affected by this toxic relationship.
If you do not contemplate breaking up, and see a glimmer of hope, then do not hesitate to go into conflict, to slam your fist on the table, to express your unhappiness. A good faith woman will seek to defuse the situation and question herself.
Otherwise, this relationship is a yoke from which you should free yourself as soon as possible, for your health and well-being.