She made the love declaration that you didn’t expect yet: Naked in your bed, she whispered to your ear the sweetest “I love you”.
Panic in your brain, you don’t know how to react… Follow the guide!
Option 1: The Big Simulation
Opting for theatrical simulation is undoubtedly the royal path. Imagine yourself in the shoes of an epic character, seized by the words of love, to the point of losing breath, as if each syllable was a sweet poison. Your performance worthy of a classic tragedy, with its exaggerated gestures and feigned astonishment, could well make a mark on people’s minds. Consider the following inscription on your tombstone: “Carried away by a breath of love”.
This scene, both dramatic and touching, will undoubtedly leave an indelible imprint.
Option 2: the mirror
Or “boomerang“! Or “It’s you I love“! A good strategy, dating back to about primary school. Repeating everything the other person says, it’s annoying, but very effective. She tells you “I love you baby”, respond to her “I love you baby”.
Anything but a good seduction technique, that… Be careful not to overdo it, your sweetheart might end up getting fed up…
Option 3: The Argument
She makes a beautiful declaration of love to you, you have the right to play dumb. As if you don’t know how to accept a compliment or the love of another.
- But why?
- But why do you love me?
- But I didn’t do anything for that?
- Are you sure?
- Are you saying this so I let you go shopping with my blue card?
- Do you have something to ask me?
- But have you been feeling this for a long time?
- But why me?
If done rightly, it should make him want to dissect his feeling of well-being. If you mess up, she will simply think that you are crazy. Heads or tails, it’s up to you to play, or not …
Option 4: Silence
Accompanied by a kiss on the forehead, and a hug, it’s the killer combo to let them know that you love them too. But be careful, don’t count on your silence + wink + hug to get away with it just like that.
A girl needs to hear something other than the “ditto” from Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing. Even if it feels strange, even if it chokes in your throat, learn to tell her “I love you”. For a natural effect, practice in the mirror every morning, the words will come out easier when the time comes.
Be careful, it’s never easy to manage your feelings at the beginning of a relationship… And yet, communication is one of the keys to attracting girls…
Bonus : it will be all the easier as you practice in front of the mirror, declaring your love for yourself. Plus a free “ego-boost”.
Option 5: Gather evidence
- Me?
- No?
- Really?
- Wait, how do you say, heartless woman?
- Can you repeat?
- Wait wait, repeat that again. Let me just grab my mobile phone to record you, so I can play back your own words during our next argument.
Make him repeat his declaration of love, over and over. It soothes the ego, it feels good. And if she is really in love, it will make her laugh.
It seems that women need to speak more than us on a daily basis, it could be a good opportunity for her to use her daily word quota.
Bonus track: the idiot
Responses to avoid:
- Thank you, you are the third person to tell me this today.
- That’s cool, but I prefer it when your sister tells me.
- It’s funny, you have the same intonation as your mother when she tells me that.
- Do you love me enough to let me sleep now please?
To go further…
And you, how do you react the first time a girl says “I love you” to you?
This article is extracted from the guide SUCCEEDING IN YOUR COUPLE RELATIONSHIP.
In summary: “How to satisfy a woman, make her addicted to you and live an extraordinary relationship with her… And how to avoid all the negative behaviors that have sabotaged your previous relationships!”